Friday, July 31, 2009

I want that "perfect boyfriend" ): haha?

Okay so i was reading a book for school and it had a boy who was honestly SO perfect it's unbelievable .. well yeah it is because no ones perfect .. but ever since then i've been like dying to have a boyfriend .. i've been asked out (by some weirdos) but i have high expectations, not in a bitc*y way .. i mean i just had to change schools during my sophomore year to an all girls school where my cousins go and there's the all boy school and i hadn't met anyone yet but i soon will and i just don't want to come off as wanting a boyfriend .. i'm 15 and i mean i know looks arn't all but i'm a good looking teenager and it's not like i have a smelling problem or my teeth are gross or any other obvious turn off .. and i have a fun personality .. and i know like alot of people at 15 haven't had a boyfriend .. any way to help me get out of this mooodd?





thanks haha i know i sound pathetic.


but thanks for your answers =]

I want that "perfect boyfriend" ): haha?
wow babe i have exactly your problem. except i dont have a huge mass of boys all in one school. but going to an all girl school can be frustrating.


ANYWAY


what happens to me is i "talk" to guys for a while, and then, once i pretty much have them, something goes wrong or theres just not stuff there anymore. ive never had a kiss(cause sorry, kissing games never appealed to me) and ive only had 1 boyfriend. he was a douche, but moving on. i just want you to know that youre not alone and there sure as h.ll isnt anything wrong with you.


try picking out a guy in that school that you know is semipopular but still doesnt have all the girls going after him, and decide to go after him. but only someone your actually attracted to. go to the like basketball games and stuff once youre friends and youll meet his friends who will naturally gather. theyre curious, plus you have a vagina. so now you have a whole pool of boys to flirt with or make like you by just being plain sexy you.


good luck babe.


were in this together. :]
Reply:just for get about it until you want to date
Reply:hate to tell you, but there is no such thing as the "perfect" boyfriend, and the guy in the book, would no doubt hurt you in some way that you wouldnt like, its impossible to love everysingle thing about one person.





look for boys, but not the "perfect" one, you will be looking forever
Reply:well, i can honestly say i know how you feel. maybe just try talking to him. maybe he will like you and if he doesnt you might beable to see more flaws in him as you get to know him.


that problay isnt very helpful, sorry.
Reply:It will happen..you will have your share of BF's in the future trust me..just be yourself and don't rush into anything.





You will find love when your not looking for it, you will find guys who are after lust if you go looking for love.
Reply:you should have no standards bet ur ugly! you just want prety boys and sweetorn their not gona go for you! weirdos are attrated to wierdo's so wat does tat say about u! lol
Reply:you need to meet more guys, try older guys they have more guts
Reply:The perfect boy will come to you when you want it or not but be patient and you will find him. Just don' spend too much time looking for him.
Reply:The perfect boyfriend is the boy that you really love and the boy that really love you too.. He couldn't be a perfect boyfriend (even he's a perfect boy) for you if he treats you bad, doesn't love you %26amp; you doesn't love him. My suggestion for you is try to fall in love first girl %26amp; you will know the answer ^o^
Reply:If you get a perfect boyfriend, I will steal him, I don't care if he is 10, 20 or 30000 years younger than me.


I will fly over to wherever you live, drive to wherever your keeping him and kidnap him and smuggle him back home.





I would then take him back to my house, boot the husband, put a chain run on his ankle and get the most expensive alarm system in the world installed!





Seriously, you will find someone, just be sure your going for personality, not looks.
Reply:Why can't you just be yourself? You're more comfortable in your own zone. Stay there for a while. Everything else will ease with time. Only you will know what type of relationship works for you. Be yourself, not like everyone else. It seems as if you have a good head on your shoulders. You'll know what's right. Take Care %26amp; Good Luck!!



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