Ladies, do you expect guys to be PERFECT?

Truth is, nobody is perfect. Not all guys have perfect teeth, acne free skin, hairless bodies, 6 packs, muscles, big wieners, etc





Why can%26#039;t you take a guy for who he is, and not what type of body he has. God made us all unique. People come come in different shapes, sizes, and colors. Some guys are tall, fat, short... does it really matter? Honestly ladies.





The girls at my school ages 15-18 are pretty shallow and dumb. They will dump a guy all because of the brand of clothes he wears. And they only like guys that play sports and act like big shots with a fancy sports cars and expensive Hip-Hop style clothes.





Not trying to start any fights. I%26#039;m just trying to make a point to all of you young ladies out there. Love a guy for who he is and nothing else should matter.

Ladies, do you expect guys to be PERFECT?
I dont expect guys to be perfect


And you make a good point


God, what is the world coming to???


Some girls are just stupid like that


And they miss a great guy, because their noses are too high in the air


Good luck


Arie
Reply:Welcome to my world. Women are always telling me I%26#039;m cute, but no way will anyone go with me, unless they%26#039;re really messed up or something, like my hubby, or they%26#039;re professional con artists, like my last ex girl.
Reply:the girls that act like that just need to grow up!! nobody is perfect
Reply:you are on the right path for true love! be patient, and it will find you! :~)
Reply:no one%26#039;s perfect in our minds
Reply:IM 15 AND I WONT DUMP A GUY FOR THAT


I DONT EXPECT A GUY TO BE PERFECT CUZ IM NOT PERFECT AND ALL I REALLY CARE IS FOR PERSONALITY
Reply:yes in highschool. this is true... girls are shallow





but you go to realize, these girls arent looking for anything long term or marriage, theyre wanting to be popular.. same got guys, they just want to get laid





if women in their 20%26#039;s %26amp;30%26#039;s were like this then yes i could see a BIG problem with it...
Reply:Dude, dude... don%26#039;t worry about it.





Not a lady, but I%26#039;m here to offer my own experience anyways.





I was the guy who wore his own style of clothes, brand-less T-shirts and the Wal-Mart brand jeans... I had a beat-up car that I drove that got me to/from where I needed to be just fine. I was religious (which girls HATE) and i never played any sports. I wasn%26#039;t a jock, I wasn%26#039;t a skater, a gangsta, a druggie, or an anarchist punk/emo kid (which it seems like you have to be to get girls in this day and age). I was a NERD.





I went on 1 date in high school, between 15-18.





I graduated, and about 3 months afterwards (the little change of scenery helped) I met this really nice girl, a little older than I am, but that%26#039;s a minor detail. She loves everything about me (and I have no looks OR money). Yet she loves me for me, for my personality, or for some other redeeming quality she sees in me... (still haven%26#039;t figured it out).





Just graduate and relocate. Good things will come to you then.
Reply:Nobody is perfect you just have some that think the are and no worries unless those girls at your school are rich give it a couple of yrs and they will be teen mom%26#039;s or fat. Then they will get over themselves.


I know the type and trust me it will happen.
Reply:well for one we dont expect you guys to be perfect because you guys are never perfect!!! you always break our hearts and go and cheat on your pregnant wives or go and watch porn.





to some looks doesnt matter, to some women personality doesnt matter, its all about taste, i think it would be hard for a woman to go out with a man thats not really attrative, should she just lie during the whole relationship, its all about tastes
Reply:i dont think guys are suppossed to be perfect.i think some of there flaws are cute.
Reply:not at all, i know no one is perfect, even the guys who come of as perfect at first have flaws. girls who care about what you listed are truly dumb and shallow, but that isn%26#039;t the case with all girls! i believe that no one is perfect until you fall in love with them, honestly everyone has flaws, but once you take time to get to know that person and really start a relationship those flaws become part of who that person is which is part of what makes them perfect. i never expect my boyfriend to be perfect, but whenever i%26#039;m with him the moment just feels as perfect as perfect can get. basically what i%26#039;m trying to say, is that you shouldn%26#039;t generalize girls cause guys should also know that not all girls are gonna be %26quot;perfect%26quot;
Reply:no one is perfect u got a great point but some women are just crazy and stupid not to see the great personality a guy may have he may be stupid or watever but theres always sumthing gud bout him
Reply:If a girl is dumping a guy over his fashion sense, then she has issues and run away from her. But honestly, girls don%26#039;t expect guys to be perfect, and as you grow older (out of highschool that is), you will realize that there are a ton of girls out there who aren%26#039;t immature highschoolers. I had to go through the same thing. I%26#039;m a tall (5%26#039;10%26quot;) well endowed, nicely shaped, with a few extra meat on my bones. I never caught a guy%26#039;s eye in highschool cuz all they wanted was the 5%26#039;0%26#039;%26#039; size zero girls. Once I got to college guys realized that there%26#039;s nothing in the pea-sized brains of girls that tiny and they all flocked my way. I think it%26#039;s just the age you%26#039;re at right now. Give girls a few more years to grow up.
Reply:Not all of us are shallow like that.. I love the flaws in a guy.. it makes them who he is.. And just because a girl is with a guy that is all flashy like that.. doesn%26#039;t mean thats all shes into.. She might portray that on the outside.. but maybe you should get to know her before you judge.. Sure some of them are dumber than horse ****.. but not all.. being with a flashy guy who everybody knows is good for the reputation and as shallow as it may be.. reputations are important in high school.





A lot of people at my school are soo stereotypical.. take me for example.. I am a white girl who dates black guys..so AUTOMATICALLY.. i ********* and I am a slut.. but the people that know me.. know that i don%26#039;t ********* and i am a virgin..





So don%26#039;t be soo quick to judge.. most girls that really like a guy.. are okay with their imperfections.. but that does come more as girls mature and realize that they don%26#039;t always needs a fancy car and a guy with a big dick to make them happy..





but then again how many guys expect the same out of girls??.if she doesn%26#039;t have a flat stomach and big boobs.. then wat good is she? .. how many of those girls at your school that are with those guys are truely happy.. dating a jock is a full time job.. females are always trying to take your spot.. then why don%26#039;t they just leave right?.. then we%26#039;re back at the whole reputation thing..





I do see your point but i do think that goes both ways.
Reply:I personally don%26#039;t expect guys to be perfect. I%26#039;m a teen, and I used to like this one guy. Then he was a jerk, and I realized that he wasn%26#039;t as perfect as I thought he was. The thing with him was that he was really ugly, but I didn%26#039;t care. I liked him because he was funny and sorta smart. I don%26#039;t like him anymore cuz of the whole jerk thing. But I have this crush on this guy in my kickboxing class. Needless to say he doesn%26#039;t wear designer clothes, at least not that i%26#039;ve seen. My point is, you need to find the right girl. Girls in college should be much better than the ones that yo%26#039;ve described. Just be patient and some day a girl will come along, and she%26#039;ll like you for who you are, and not what you have or what you look like.
Reply:yeahh..sounds like high school..hated hs...just wait, girls wont always expect you to be perfect but youll find a girl who doesnt expect perfect but thinks you are anyway...so just wait for the girl who thinks you are perfect...
Reply:OK i knew no one in this life is perfect but i just want from my boyfriend to love me and be honesty with me that%26#039;s all i want
Reply:Not all girls are like that. A man after God%26#039;s own heart, that%26#039;s what turns me on. So go get %26#039;em and go Christian Girls!
Reply:you seem like such a nice guy


i totaly see your point


the girls that are shallow and stupid are the ones that end up getting a divorce later in life


just ignore them and someone smart and loving will be attracted to you............sooon!
Reply:i totally agree with you want is wrong with a normal boy and you are soooooooooooooooooo right . i dont expect guys to be prefect.so girls can be so mean. but so can boys
Reply:Don%26#039;t spend to much questioning this sweetie. Bottom line is you don%26#039;t have to be perfect for all the girls because your already perfect for one out there somewhere. Try not to be shallow yourself and waste to much time on the ones that don%26#039;t deserve you. Wish you a happy life and many wonderful expeirences.
Reply:I agree with you. My bf, in my mind, is perfect for me. Now that doesnt mean he is for the next girl or whatever but I hope you get what I mean. I never expect anything from him, he is how he is and i love that! I cannot see what is with most young girls i know, for example all they want is looks! Makes no sense, they don%26#039;t ever find the real guys because they%26#039;re too busy judging. Then they complain they can never find anyone good. Man, if those dumb girls opened their eyes maybe, just MAYBE some sense would be knocked into their %26quot;brains%26quot;
Reply:well, ladies often say all the best guys are either gay or taken, and i guess we could say the same about girls...
Reply:no way !!! =) of course i would like the guy t be descent looking but NEVER perfect !!! %26lt;3 PLUS ITS about wts on the INSIDE that realy counts !!!



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