I cant stand it, My friends life is perfect!?

My friend has the perfect life. He is good looking, he gets good grades, hes good at sports, he's good at talking, and plays music. He is the luckiest kid ever.I have nothing, Im short, I matured slow,(Im 16) so I look young. Im geting in beter shape, But Im still ugly. I have so many flaws. My front tooth got knocked out and now it wont grow. Plus I have ******* unibrow. I remove it very 3 weeks. but It still feels like its there in my mind.He gets all the girls. I mean, seriously, they ask HIM out. Everytime I liked a girl, they shunned me. I had huge crush on this one girl, and she rejected me because Im a loser. Girls have even told me to my face that Im disgusting.I liked this other girl, and I finally built up the courage to ask her out, and she rejected me because she liked my friend. Then she asked him out, and he rejected her. No matter how confident I act, I always get rejected. I feel so depressed at night, and sometimes I just want to die.

I cant stand it, My friends life is perfect!?
Believe in yourself. You're only 16, you have a lot of time to have girlfriends. What I think you should do is find a hobby you enjoy and practice it every day. If you like sports, join a team. If you like music, take up guitar, or drums; whatever you would like. If it's drama classes, take them. Drama classes will actually help you with the confidence, so maybe you should do that.





Study harder than you are now. Not everyone is gonna like you. Maybe you're going for the wrong type of girls. Don't judge a book by it's cover and you may find yourself in a place you never thought you could be in. In a good way!
Reply:I do play music, but its not helping me with women.


I dont want to wait to be an adult to be happy! Report It

Reply:Consider yourself lucky. You're a late bloomer. The hard times will build character. Women (not little girls) are attracted to men with character. You'll far outshine him later on in life. Just hang in there.
Reply:you need to stop this and nip it int he bud right now... you are a person and you have potential... you are only 16 and it is NORMAL to have some of these feelings... but startgaining self cofidence there are things thatmake a person shine,,,albert einstein was no handsome man but look what he did and look atthe people who admired him...


you have potnetial you justhave to realize it with in yourself and keep telling your self you are a GOOD person and people WIll start to notice this and girls will accept your invitation to go out with you
Reply:Kill him or start believing in yourself... people with low self esteem or inferiority complex are usually ignored by people
Reply:You are not ugly. An orthodontist can fix your teeth. The uni brow will disappear, especially if you use Nad's a couple times.


At 16, you have time to grow up. You write that you are getting in shape. You can still get taller, but if not, that isn't the end of the world.


Look around for a quiet girl who you have something in common with. If you can't find her at school, look around at other places.


Do whatever you can to improve yourself and develop some gifts and interests that only you have.


Say, you are rock climbing and you meet a girl who likes that, too. Or, try a martial art class and meet a girl there.


You haven't experienced the breadth of life, yet. Don't give up.


It is much too soon. You'll see.


C. :)!!
Reply:...sometimes a person needs to be a really good old weed before he can be a really terrific flower.


Do understand though, that being as a weed first?....you'll have the extreme advantage of going on later in life with better stuff,... long after your lucky, uninhibited friend loses his significant unorthodox incapable of sustaining a really good long relationship type behavior systematically confounds him disproportionately.


Was that enough crap for ya partner?


Nobody likes a whiner here my good man......so quit trying being one seriously.......ok?


i don't imagine that you significantly like people who whine to you either.....do ya?


My point.....exactly!!!!
Reply:First off, his life will not always be perfect. It's likely he will not look so good in six years, where as you will grown into your features, and become a lady killer.





But for now, you need to get some confidence. Go look in the mirror and say -outloud- "I am not ugly. I'm handsome. I have confidence." Do this every morning and live by it.








Oh! and when looking for girls, maybe you should try to get to know them first. The ones that will say yes, and be worth it, may not be the ones who steal the spot light and wear short skirts, they are the ones who you can talk to and respect themselves.



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