How do I get over needing to be perfect appearence wise? (details)?

Ever since like 7th grade I've felt the need to look perfect I'm in 9th now.





Its got to stop. I'm never good enough for myself and its become kind of like an obsession and I feel inferior (at least appearence wise) to almost everybody.





My skin's never clear enough, my teeth aren't straight enough, my breath isn't minty enough, my eyes aren't light enough, my hair isn't wavy enough, my arms aren't muscular enough, my stomach isn't defined enough, my legs are too skinny, my waist is too high... its just BAD





I expect perfection of myself but I can never get it... and its not that I'm bad looking I just always want to be better = [





http://i54.photobucket.com/albums/g104/D...





http://i54.photobucket.com/albums/g104/D...





See, I'm not hideous just not good enough...


Anyone else suffer with this problem. How did you fix it?

How do I get over needing to be perfect appearence wise? (details)?
your links dont work hon
Reply:well 1. your pics don't work


and 2. IT'S CALLED BEING HUMAN! everyone has issues, and no one is perfect


the only way to stop doing this is (i know it sounds bad but it helps me) stop looking at your flaws and see if you can notive them in other people! you're not the only one with a pimple...a bad hair day...skinny legs...etc





just realize that everyone else in the world is thinking about THEIR problem, not yours! so get on with your life :)
Reply:Your links don't work - and no, not really I've never had that problem. I'm already perfect. Just kidding - but I do love the way I look. Everyone has stuff they would change, it's completely normal. But, the fact that you border upon obsession is probably not good, and you may want to see a therapist about that. I remember starting freshman year I was still really short and it bothered me so much but there was really nothing I can do about it - I'm only about 5'5" now, but I've learned to love it - especially since it means I get to wear heels all the time. You grow to love your flaws because they are part of what makes you, you - no one can be perfect, as the meaning of perfect is open to interpretation.
Reply:well first off your links dont work.


and secondly everyone has different ideas of what beauty is while you might assume guys only think blonde tanned girls are gorgeous most guys i know like darker haired fairer skin girls.everyone has different types youre never going to mold into someone EVERYONE thinks is hot.some people think beauty is paris hilton while othrs think more towards an angelina.





the most important thing is a good personality thats all you ever need to work on because if ur a bad person or a ***** or nasty to people than no one will like you even if you looked like a model.so just be a good perosn and know that life is too short to always care about looks you should focus more on just having fun and trying to care about important things
Reply:Links don't work and I'm sure you're fine. Everyone is different I'm sure you look amazing to someone else.



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